It gets a little conflicting. Two people can each be doing what they think is the best for everyone, and end up 'cancelling' each other's efforts. There needs to be some amount of compromise from each individual in order to make for a better group. But that should be a deliberate decision from each individual, not just a case of following the leader.
But, yes, it's hypocritical to have expectations of others that you don't even have of yourself.
It gets a little conflicting. Two people can each be doing what they think is the best for everyone, and end up 'cancelling' each other's efforts. There needs to be some amount of compromise from each individual in order to make for a better group. But that should be a deliberate decision from each individual, not just a case of following the leader.
But, yes, it's hypocritical to have expectations of others that you don't even have of yourself.