Not every unwanted child is abused (my father wasn't, an 'oops' baby that caused my grandmother to cut off my grandfather entirely, although she did love my dad and felt bad later about not wanting him initially) but plenty are, and ideally every child is wanted. Poor women suffer the most since they're the ones left to take care of the children if daddy-o(s) don't stick around to help. It would help immensely if we subsidized birth control for *everyone* (not just the poor) and also, if we could get serious about reducing poverty.
But I've heard and read some people say they wished their mother had gotten an abortion. And given how tough life is overall for everyone, I think 'right to life' should be altered to 'right to a GOOD life'.
>Poor women suffer the most since they're the ones left to take care of the children if daddy-o(s) don't stick around to help.<
Everything in life is harder for poor people. This is not exclusive to child-rearing. I don't get why being poor suddenly gives one an excuse to ignore moral norms and responsibilities. Well, I sort of get the leftist ideology behind it, but still. It's simply wrong and bad. If you are poor, *too bad*. You still have a duty not to literally murder your own offspring. Of all the things, that one is certainly not too much to ask.
The idea that poor people somehow "can't afford" children is also completely silly in a nation where the poor are more likely to be obese than the wealthy. Yes, children do bring financial hardship, and we do need to take more steps to alleviate that in my opinion, but the idea that a child is somehow going to starve in the United States is completely silly and does not happen outside of willful neglect.
>And given how tough life is overall for everyone, I think 'right to life' should be altered to 'right to a GOOD life'.<
But with the caveat that if we think you're not likely to live a "good" life, we will murder you as a child in order to spare you the theoretical suffering?
Interesting. You show a lot more feeling for a fetus than you do for the mother who has to raise it.
Look, I'm not poor and I can tell you aren't either...but can't you see how this is about more than a child's 'right' to life? How it's also about having a tolerable life? Which you can have growing up poor, and you can have a rotten life growing up with much more, but boy oh boy, can I see the right-wing 'f-u' ideology on display here. You really don't know why the poor are obese? It's not because they have too much money, it's because they have so little. The crap food is the cheapest. McDonald's gives you a LOT of food for very little money, but it lacks nutrition. To eat well, you have to spend more. Go check out a Whole Foods if you don't believe me.
>Interesting. You show a lot more feeling for a fetus than you do for the mother who has to raise it.<
Feeling bad for someone doesn't give them an excuse to murder their own offspring.
>Look, I'm not poor and I can tell you aren't either...but can't you see how this is about more than a child's 'right' to life? How it's also about having a tolerable life?<
Why don't you go and ask all those poor souls subsisting on McDonald's if they'd rather that they were never born, and instead cut apart in the womb by surgical instruments? If any of them answer yes, you should inform them that since we have a Second Amendment in this country, if their life is truly nothing but intolerable suffering, there is a guaranteed pain-free way out that they can access quite easily. See how many of them end up deciding to take that option.
Then understand that is the choice you are saying that we should make for them, ahead of time, before they ever have any agency of their own.
Enough with your faux concern for the poor, P.O. You're not here for an honest conversation, you're hoping to start an ideological food fight. You're not going to get it. Not here.
Life is hell as an abused kid no matter *who* your parents are. I'm killfiling any future comments from you in my email because I'm done with you.
>You're not here for an honest conversation, you're hoping to start an ideological food fight.<
Yes, it is my intention to promote my understanding of the idea and to ridicule yours, because yours is both wrong and evil, and is thus worthy of both derision and rebuttal. Should those billionaire twins have been murdered in the crib to spare them their ordeal? And who would even be entrusted with such a choice if not for the already-abusive parents themselves? It's hard to imagine that billionaires lacked access to abortion, if they wanted to go that route in order to avoid having children.
Not every unwanted child is abused (my father wasn't, an 'oops' baby that caused my grandmother to cut off my grandfather entirely, although she did love my dad and felt bad later about not wanting him initially) but plenty are, and ideally every child is wanted. Poor women suffer the most since they're the ones left to take care of the children if daddy-o(s) don't stick around to help. It would help immensely if we subsidized birth control for *everyone* (not just the poor) and also, if we could get serious about reducing poverty.
But I've heard and read some people say they wished their mother had gotten an abortion. And given how tough life is overall for everyone, I think 'right to life' should be altered to 'right to a GOOD life'.
>Poor women suffer the most since they're the ones left to take care of the children if daddy-o(s) don't stick around to help.<
Everything in life is harder for poor people. This is not exclusive to child-rearing. I don't get why being poor suddenly gives one an excuse to ignore moral norms and responsibilities. Well, I sort of get the leftist ideology behind it, but still. It's simply wrong and bad. If you are poor, *too bad*. You still have a duty not to literally murder your own offspring. Of all the things, that one is certainly not too much to ask.
The idea that poor people somehow "can't afford" children is also completely silly in a nation where the poor are more likely to be obese than the wealthy. Yes, children do bring financial hardship, and we do need to take more steps to alleviate that in my opinion, but the idea that a child is somehow going to starve in the United States is completely silly and does not happen outside of willful neglect.
>And given how tough life is overall for everyone, I think 'right to life' should be altered to 'right to a GOOD life'.<
But with the caveat that if we think you're not likely to live a "good" life, we will murder you as a child in order to spare you the theoretical suffering?
Interesting. You show a lot more feeling for a fetus than you do for the mother who has to raise it.
Look, I'm not poor and I can tell you aren't either...but can't you see how this is about more than a child's 'right' to life? How it's also about having a tolerable life? Which you can have growing up poor, and you can have a rotten life growing up with much more, but boy oh boy, can I see the right-wing 'f-u' ideology on display here. You really don't know why the poor are obese? It's not because they have too much money, it's because they have so little. The crap food is the cheapest. McDonald's gives you a LOT of food for very little money, but it lacks nutrition. To eat well, you have to spend more. Go check out a Whole Foods if you don't believe me.
>Interesting. You show a lot more feeling for a fetus than you do for the mother who has to raise it.<
Feeling bad for someone doesn't give them an excuse to murder their own offspring.
>Look, I'm not poor and I can tell you aren't either...but can't you see how this is about more than a child's 'right' to life? How it's also about having a tolerable life?<
Why don't you go and ask all those poor souls subsisting on McDonald's if they'd rather that they were never born, and instead cut apart in the womb by surgical instruments? If any of them answer yes, you should inform them that since we have a Second Amendment in this country, if their life is truly nothing but intolerable suffering, there is a guaranteed pain-free way out that they can access quite easily. See how many of them end up deciding to take that option.
Then understand that is the choice you are saying that we should make for them, ahead of time, before they ever have any agency of their own.
Enough with your faux concern for the poor, P.O. You're not here for an honest conversation, you're hoping to start an ideological food fight. You're not going to get it. Not here.
Life is hell as an abused kid no matter *who* your parents are. I'm killfiling any future comments from you in my email because I'm done with you.
https://abcnews.go.com/Health/billionaire-twins-abused-slaves-doris-duke-heir-father/story?id=19853671
>You're not here for an honest conversation, you're hoping to start an ideological food fight.<
Yes, it is my intention to promote my understanding of the idea and to ridicule yours, because yours is both wrong and evil, and is thus worthy of both derision and rebuttal. Should those billionaire twins have been murdered in the crib to spare them their ordeal? And who would even be entrusted with such a choice if not for the already-abusive parents themselves? It's hard to imagine that billionaires lacked access to abortion, if they wanted to go that route in order to avoid having children.