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I'd argue there's no virtue in the decision to have kids (or not have them). But, having kids tends to foster the development of several virtues: A sense of responsibility towards others, less focus on one's self, and a sense of a long-term commitment to society and the future.

Nothing quite focuses you on the future as the thought that your kids are going to have to live there.

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Well said. My only regret in life is not having children because I never married and didn't want to raise them alone. Although I doted over my niece and nephews who are all adults now, I have no idea who will look after me in my elderly years. The realization of this alone is enough to have a child even if one must go it alone. A good topic for John to write about, too.

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