I had something happen a few years ago that changed how I thought about this. I was getting high with this older guy at my community college. I’m late 20s, he’s in his 50s and we’re surrounded by people aged 18-22, some younger, some older. He was telling me about hanging out with this young girl, and said he wanted to, “unleash the fangs, but that he didn’t.” He later approached me about finding this girl. I thought the whole thing was weird so I talked to the Title IX office. So a little later I’m hooking up with this girl from my class. We were friends, then suddenly more than friends, and the inevitable result of this was a good time that ended in drama. During the drama she tells me the sex wasn’t consensual. She tells me this while we were both working at the community college. The story ends with me spilling my guts to Title IX about some shit I did. The shoe can always be on the other foot.
I had something happen a few years ago that changed how I thought about this. I was getting high with this older guy at my community college. I’m late 20s, he’s in his 50s and we’re surrounded by people aged 18-22, some younger, some older. He was telling me about hanging out with this young girl, and said he wanted to, “unleash the fangs, but that he didn’t.” He later approached me about finding this girl. I thought the whole thing was weird so I talked to the Title IX office. So a little later I’m hooking up with this girl from my class. We were friends, then suddenly more than friends, and the inevitable result of this was a good time that ended in drama. During the drama she tells me the sex wasn’t consensual. She tells me this while we were both working at the community college. The story ends with me spilling my guts to Title IX about some shit I did. The shoe can always be on the other foot.
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