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Sandra Pinches's avatar

Very entertaining podcast! I especially liked the banter about men's extramarital habits. Women rarely hear the insider perspectives on this subject. I didn't know until recently how much the majority of men struggle to be monogamous. It's amusing to hear about it from the outside, and also makes me feel relieved that I am not with a man.

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Glenn - Your obvious conflicting feelings about not wanting "well, what does the BLACK guy think" and at the same time feeling shame for what "my people" are doing. That was beautifully put and I'm deeply empathetic to those feelings. I think that tension between me as an individual ("self-made person") and me as a member of my "tribe" (group, culture, whatever) is deeply human. (But maybe it's uniquely Western, perhaps members of more 'tribal' cultures only feel the tribal side and are fine with being identified with their tribe and their role in it.)

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